May 1, 2007

	Fighting the Good Fight (So That You Both Can Win) In the heat of an argument it’s easy to succumb to fighting dirty to "win," especially when you’re not being heard, but you may be damaging your relationship. Learn how to fight fairly with your significant other so that you both can enjoy a much happier and more intimate relationship.

When Friends Get Jealous It’s a sad day when good friends start acting strangely toward you when you’ve found new love. Sarcastic remarks abound and a cold front blows in—and they're supposed to be your friends, right? Here’s how to understand what’s going on with them so that you can still enjoy your new relationship and keep your same great friendships, too. Relationships: Liar, Liar—Is it Ever Okay? He says he’s tired and doesn’t want to go out, but then she finds out that he hit the town with the boys. She says that she has no problem with his ex-girlfriend e-mailing him every now and then, but then she goes through his e-mail like the secret police. Think that little white lies never hurt an unsuspecting party? Think again . . . About You: Even Wallflowers Bloom Are you a pushover when it comes to love? Do you find it hard to say "No" to a potential partner without becoming uncomfortable or feeling "passive-aggressive"? Strengthen yourself by learning how to say what you mean, mean what you say, and still be nice about it. Q&A with Dr. Neil Clark Warren: It's Not Easy Being Green Dear Dr. Warren, I’m hoping you can help me. I’ve never had a problem meeting women and going out on dates, but after about a month or two, I find myself becoming jealous of other guys, and it only gets worse from there. At first she’ll think it’s kind of cute, but it becomes a real problem. A woman I really liked recently broke up with me over it, and it threw me because I thought we had a great thing going. In your experience, is jealousy something that can go away over time with the right person, or is it just my nature to be like this? Sincerely, John in Tewksbury, MA The Science Files—Fact or Myth: Is Chocolate an Aphrodisiac? It’s been said that the way to most women’s hearts is through a heart-shaped box of chocolates, but is it because chocolate is an aphrodisiac, or is there something else about this magical sweet that satisfies a woman’s cravings like nothing else? Locker Room: Smooth Moving in 3 Steps Six months into a bad move-in with your significant other and even the best of intentions will feel like the worst of decisions. Small idiosyncrasies overlooked in the beginning can become very large reasons to split up later on. Follow these simple steps to avoid a move-in disaster.

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