July 7, 2007

Locker Room: Dating on the Cheap All men want to wine and dine the women in their lives, but unless a guy is an entertainment lawyer or an heir to a seafood empire, not every date can be caviar and lobster. If the tax man hit you hard this year (or if you have already blown your refund at Caesar's Palace), here are five great cheap date ideas that won't seem cheap, and will make both your date's and your accountant's hearts soar.

Dumped! What Happened? Finding out that your relationship has ended from your partner can seem like one of the most convoluted mysteries of life. How could something so promising for you become so passé for your partner? Here are six types of relationship fallouts that may provide some insight into what may happen when relationships go wrong. Helping a Partner Through Grief The loss of a friend, family member or loved one can be overwhelming for a partner, but by being part of a strong support system you can play an important role in his or her healing process. Being a great listener is a given, and by recognizing and understanding the typical stages of healing and how they have developed, you will be in a much better position to help your partner through his or her unique situation of grief. Overcoming Procrastination Do you find yourself putting off tasks and delaying decisions, some of which you would really like to accomplish? If so, you are not alone. With 15 to 20 percent of the population reporting putting off everything from lifestyle changes such as diet and exercise to simple tasks like doing the dishes on a habitual basis, understanding what kind of procrastinator you are can go a long way in helping you get done what should have gotten done yesterday. Q&A with Dr. Neil Clark Warren: Appearance and Self-Acceptance Dear Dr. Warren, I consider myself a healthy, attractive woman, but I am also on the heavier side. It has been a long time since my last date (two years, in fact), and I find myself extremely self-conscious. I assume that a lot of men (but not all) may be turned off when they see that I do not have a perfect "10" figure, and I don't want to mislead anyone by not sharing my photo until way in to the communication stages. At the same time I'm afraid that a lot of men will close me out from the beginning. What do you suggest I do? I'm a really good person with a lot of love to share. Thank you, Caycee in Atlanta, GA How Do You Value Your Mate? Each person in a relationship perceives his or her romantic partners differently, but how you rate your partner's traits individually can speak to your total satisfaction and overall relationship success. Locker Room: Harnessing Your Wild Side When chemistry is positively off the charts with a partner you're attracted to, it pays to play your advances a little bit slower than your instincts may be telling you. In fact, the entire longevity of the relationship could be at stake. Tune in to what you may be missing out on by getting too close too soon.

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