eHarmony Advice: August 2007

August 1, 2007

	5 Telltale Signs of Great First Dates Nerves aside, getting to know someone new can come with mixed signals, a rollercoaster of thoughts and a flurry of emotions. So how can you tell how things are going? Look for these 5 telltale signs that may indicate that you and your date are well on your way to laying the foundation for a second date.

What, Me Settle?
Are you involved in one of these unfulfilling, fair-weather relationships or dating situations, but are afraid to face the unknown to set foot into potentially greener pastures? Find out what you may be missing.

Help—My Partner's Married to the Job!
Are you coming in second place to your partner’s profession? Has the workplace invaded your relationship space? Here's how to get your partner to "unplug" and tune more into you.

Emotional Health—What It Is and How to Get It
Enjoying the most fulfilling relationships with friends, family and romantic partners is a matter of becoming as emotionally healthy as you can. Tap into these three markers for emotional health to make your relationships and your self-worth soar.

Q&A with Dr. Neil Clark Warren:
Shouldn't We Be Exclusive?
Dear Dr. Warren,
I’ve gotten to know a very nice man through eHarmony, but after a few dates he informed me that we were not exclusive to each other. He’s not so much into e-mail or phone calls, but our dates are absolutely wonderful—four dates, in fact. During the date he is 100 percent there, but when the date is over he’s only 10 percent there. If anything, when he does reply to my e-mail they seem a bit impersonal. I am looking for a commitment. When should a relationship become exclusive?

Sincerely,
Sally in New York

For Couples: How Satisfied Are You
In Your Relationship?
Are you with someone who makes your heart race and your palms sweat? Discover more about the passion and compatibility you share. By identifying your relationship’s strengths and weaknesses, you and your partner will be able to celebrate those aspects that bring you closer as well as get tips and ideas on how to improve those areas that put distance between you.

Locker Room:
Defusing the Passive-Aggressive
Ask her "What’s Wrong?" and she replies that "Nothing..." followed by that kind of deafening silence that means anything but nothing. Then a few minutes, hours or days later, hurtful remarks are fired at you as if out of the blue. Find out what’s going on and how to defuse the situation so the two of you can get back to enjoying the very best of each other.

Movie Night: I Spy With My Little Eye
Top 20 Must-See Spy Movies
From old-school "007" to the explosive digital movies of 2007, action and adventure movies have kept us on the edge of our seats, contemplating the critical missions of international spies and fates of nations by slipping inside the shoes of our favorite characters. Here are 20 must-see spy movies from the past 40 years of top-secret assignments portrayed on the silver screen.


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